Replace all uses of the heapsize crate with malloc_size_of.

Servo currently uses `heapsize`, but Stylo/Gecko use `malloc_size_of`.
`malloc_size_of` is better -- it handles various cases that `heapsize` does not
-- so this patch changes Servo to use `malloc_size_of`.

This patch makes the following changes to the `malloc_size_of` crate.

- Adds `MallocSizeOf` trait implementations for numerous types, some built-in
  (e.g. `VecDeque`), some external and Servo-only (e.g. `string_cache`).

- Makes `enclosing_size_of_op` optional, because vanilla jemalloc doesn't
  support that operation.

- For `HashSet`/`HashMap`, falls back to a computed estimate when
  `enclosing_size_of_op` isn't available.

- Adds an extern "C" `malloc_size_of` function that does the actual heap
  measurement; this is based on the same functions from the `heapsize` crate.

This patch makes the following changes elsewhere.

- Converts all the uses of `heapsize` to instead use `malloc_size_of`.

- Disables the "heapsize"/"heap_size" feature for the external crates that
  provide it.

- Removes the `HeapSizeOf` implementation from `hashglobe`.

- Adds `ignore` annotations to a few `Rc`/`Arc`, because `malloc_size_of`
  doesn't derive those types, unlike `heapsize`.

components/script/dom/paintworkletglobalscope.rs

@@ -68,7 +68,7 @@ pub struct PaintWorkletGlobalScope {
     /// The worklet global for this object
     worklet_global: WorkletGlobalScope,
     /// The image cache
-    #[ignore_heap_size_of = "Arc"]
+    #[ignore_malloc_size_of = "Arc"]
     image_cache: Arc<ImageCache>,
     /// <https://drafts.css-houdini.org/css-paint-api/#paint-definitions>
     paint_definitions: DomRefCell<HashMap<Atom, Box<PaintDefinition>>>,
@@ -464,7 +464,7 @@ pub enum PaintWorkletTask {
 /// <https://drafts.css-houdini.org/css-paint-api/#paint-definition>
 /// This type is dangerous, because it contains uboxed `Heap<JSVal>` values,
 /// which can't be moved.
-#[derive(HeapSizeOf, JSTraceable)]
+#[derive(JSTraceable, MallocSizeOf)]
 #[must_root]
 struct PaintDefinition {
     class_constructor: Heap<JSVal>,