Auto merge of #18514 - asajeffrey:layout-dont-panic-if-no-iframe-bc, r=emilio

Remove sources of panic when laying out an iframe without a nested browsing context

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At the moment, layout panics if it discovers an iframe without a nested browsing context. Under normal circumstances, this is reasonable, but it requires very tight synchronization between script, layout, the constellation and the compositor. In particular, if a layout is in progress when an iframe's browsing context is discarded, this can trigger panic.

This PR fixes this in two ways:

1. Making the pipeline and browsing context ids optional in layout's representation of an iframe.
2. Shutting down layout before discarding a browsing context, rather than after.

This is belt and braces.

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components/layout_thread/dom_wrapper.rs

@@ -983,12 +983,14 @@ impl<'ln> ThreadSafeLayoutNode for ServoThreadSafeLayoutNode<'ln> {
         this.svg_data()
     }
 
-    fn iframe_browsing_context_id(&self) -> BrowsingContextId {
+    // Can return None if the iframe has no nested browsing context
+    fn iframe_browsing_context_id(&self) -> Option<BrowsingContextId> {
         let this = unsafe { self.get_jsmanaged() };
         this.iframe_browsing_context_id()
     }
 
-    fn iframe_pipeline_id(&self) -> PipelineId {
+    // Can return None if the iframe has no nested browsing context
+    fn iframe_pipeline_id(&self) -> Option<PipelineId> {
         let this = unsafe { self.get_jsmanaged() };
         this.iframe_pipeline_id()
     }